Mind of 360

A good quote.

Ketika scroll down melihat homepage FB, ternampak ni benda.

Allah juga berfirman dalam surah Al-Hujuraat supaya kita menjauhi buruk sangka sebab ia adalah sebahagian daripada dosa.

Kita selalu pandang sesuatu benda dengan pemikiran negatif, tidak terkecuali si penaip ini, dan selalu saja banyak rungutan.

Memang, lumrah manusia punya sikap, tipikaliti untuk lebih memandang negatif kepada positif.

Tapi manusia beriman dan lain daripada yang lain, akan sentiasa memikirkan hikmah disebalik situasi atau kejadian buruk yang berlaku.

Susah, tapi sudah semestinya benda baik susah dibuat, terutamanya melibatkan mentaliti kita. Jika kita memang dah terbiasa untuk berfikiran negatif, maka hampir setiap benda pun kita akan fikir negatif walaupun pada hakikatnya ada kebaikan yang lagi besar disebalik setiap yang kita hadapi.

Apapun, jom latih mentaliti kita. Hindari untuk berfikiran negatif dan bersangka buruk. Paling teruk jika kita bersangka buruk kepada Allah.

Nabi ada kata, dalam hadis Qudsi yang mana kalau aku tak silap, Allah berfirman: "Aku adalah sepertimana sangkaan hambaKu terhadapKu..." Kalau kita sangka Allah bagi kita sesuatu yang buruk, itulah terjadi. Jadi, anggaplah apa yang terjadi itu sebagai satu ujian, peringatan atau 'tebusan' dosa.

Sejak habis SBE-4 ni, aku akui aku lebih suka ke sekolah, untuk mengajar budak, memanusiakan mereka. Pernah aku rasa aku tidak patut masuk di sini, sehingga terfikir untuk keluar daripada IPG.

Tapi jika difikirkan balik, sebenarnya mungkin ketika sebelum SBE terakhir, aku tidak jumpa passion untuk mengajar budak. Setelah disuruh untuk ganti kelas kebanyakan cikgu walaupun di luar bidang major/minor, akhirnya rasa minat itu dah muncul. Sabar dulu, lepas ni ada assignment, micro-teaching, English Week, exam, lepas tu mengurus dua big events, dengan kerja-kerja yang ada, baru masuk praktikum fasa 1.

Jadi, jangan dulu kita nilai sesuatu itu tanpa fikirkan hikmahnya, kot-kot nanti kita malu tahap giga.

#Jom assignment. Dear Suzy, semoga anda sihat selalu, baliklah ke pangkuan ku secepat yang mungkin..~

Complaint or accept.

We have forum tonight.

Conducted by PISMP BM Sem 6.

This, it is just a set induction.


I wonder why we tend to complaint.

I wonder why we tend to sigh.

I wonder why.


I'm also like this.

Was, is, and will.

I'm a human too.


Only that, we tend to complaint on small things.

A stupid thing.

About small matter.


I am irritated.

Seriously, I can make this entry a very sadistic one.

But, I meant to write for people.


So that they'll know.

Universal is what I meant.

If you don't get it, think hard.


People, it's okay to complaint.

As long as you don't exaggerate it.

As long as you know the limit.


Why complaint but rarely talk to Allah?

Why not ask from Him the Almighty?

And give efforts in solving?


Maybe, we are far away from Him.

We've fallen deep in darkness.

We've attached to the temporary world.


I, have fall.

I, the one mentioned above.

I, who don't want to solve on my own.


I, who complaint rather than solving.

I, who complaint rather than think the goodness.

I, who complaint and rage against the innocent.


Yes, it's us.

It's just depend on us.

It's just how we perceive things.


If you fell, get up.

If you tripped, stand up.

If you hurt, heal it.


Yet, it's not easy to find the light on your own.

It won't ever easy, but it's not hard.

Because Allah know we can do it.

It's just you, you can choose.


To complaint or to perceive.

Yup, it's just you.


Just one think.

Never jump to conclusion, if the hypothesis is still unclear.

We will face this together!

"We cannot make them to understand, although they are our brothers and sisters."

"We disagree on some programs, but most of them involved are the our brothers and sisters."

Much on that.

I can feel it. Yup, I don't know but I hope that Allah is testing us.

Seriously, nowadays, it's very difficult to find someone that truly cares for you because of Allah.

Especially if you're given tasks to do.

Let me quote something.

"Eh, aku dah siap tugasku, dia punya hal lah tugas dia."

"Ish dia ni, tak tau ke kerja ni penting, kalau part dia tak siap macam mana nak teruskan part aku ni."

"Saya tidak terlibat pun dalam hal tu, saya buat tugas saya ja, buat apa mau susah-susah urus tu. Bukan bidang saya tu."

I've faced these, still facing them, and will always face them.

I just wonder, just because the task is not related to us, does it mean we don't have to know about it?

Just because we have done our task, does it mean we don't have to help the others?

"Eh, aku dah buat ni. Kau jangan pandai-pandai sana, itu hal kau. Tak mau masuk campur."

"Eh biarlah, aku punya part siap, korang lagilah. Aku dah penat-penat buat."

"Kerja kau belum siap? Tanggung sendiri."

If I could just write in Malay....

Usually, if someone has done something, they will 'ungkit' what they have done so that their responsibility 'terlepas begitu sahaja'.

Heh. I faced these all the time, regardless of time, place or even the people themselves.

Sometimes I was just like this, if I am too tired or too lazy or giving excuses.

Most of us like to do one thing, COMPLAINT!

And do another thing, MENGUNGKIT.

But ignore the most important one, UNDERSTANDING.

And never put ourselves in someone shoes, YOU ARE YOU, I AM ME.

Get it?

IF you really love your friends, you will help them no matter what.

You can give them advice or angry at them, because of not doing their work. But does it means you have to release your responsibility to guide them?

Why don't you spend your times to do the task together with them?

Rasulullah S.A.W always help people, seriously without any single complaint.

Umar Al-Khattab, helped to carry a pack of rice and some foods to feed the poor, without single complaint.

The only thing they'll say "Adakah aku tidak melaksanakan tanggungjawabku terhadap mereka?"

Ask ourselves, "Adakah aku telah menunaikan hak saudaraku?"

Ask! Ask! Ask!

People, if you think people are wrong because of themselves, that doesn't mean you are on the right one.

You might be the one who was wrong, because you didn't guide them to the right path.

Objection? You have to think of yourself.

Since this situation, will never run away from my life, I have decided to change the way myself overcome this.

Whenever I forgot to do a task, I knew that these kinds of complaints would come out, so I just have to accept it, and ask for their help or guidance.

Why? It is much better rather than feeling angry towards them to not being able to understand us.

Yup, I admit that.

We tend to put mistakes on others by letting out our responsibilities.

"Eh, itu kaulah. Aku, akulah. Tiada kaitan, padan muka, siapa suruh kau. Tanggung sendirilah."

Why don't we change like this?

"Kenapa tak buat? Kau ini. Penting tu. Kasi selesailah. Kalau ada apa-apa tanya aku, insya Allah dapat tolong."

Simple, nicest way although...'agak pedas sikit'.

Try to understand people by not ignoring yourself.

This, you will learn that life is wonderful with triumphs and disasters.

In Islam, there's no such thing "kau kau, aku aku." In Islam, "we will face this together."

I'm sorry to those if I ever did this (which I did!) to them. Insya Allah, WE WILL FACE THIS TOGETHER.

I'll try, Insya Allah.

360.

Special numbers.

Why I chose this for my blog's title?

Well, so that I can write a post by using 360 perspective about my surrounding, issues, as well as the world.

I believe that I must be more matured starting from now. Not that I'm like a kid, it's just that I should change how I perceive things. After reading Hilal's book, I start to see things differently, use my mind to see the angles of a thing.

Before this, I only perceived things with one perception only. Only a solution used to solve a problem. But then, our mind must work very hard to see, think, judge, value things from different ways.

Because of that, I have changed my blog's theme. I want readers to feel comfortable and calm while reading my entries. Before I forgot, I have started to write back in English since I want to improve my second language, you know, I'm TESLIAN. Hehe.

People, you must see things from many perspectives. I give you an example.

Getting married during study. Study at any institution except for schools. Get married early, list the pros and contras.

Why? Within this, we will know which has more points, and compare it. Getting married will enable us to

- avoid from doing sins

- sunnah

- happy

- offspring (okay seriously, children)

Contras?

- money

- parents disagree

- may loss focus

Still, this is just my view. Maybe you can give evidence but it is much better to focus on your study, wait until your financial is stable, then you can get married. Excluding IPG's students, other institutions' students might face difficulties especially about financial since it is loan, not allowance.

Sorry to say, it is just my views. I don't care if you like it or not.

That's an example. So, people, never see things with only one perspective. Why I always mention about this is because, we always see things with 'two eyes', excluding our brain.

Alright then, hope you will get the benefits from this post. I want to rest. Assalamualaikum.