Pretty Little Girl

"Pretty Little Girl"

Nineteen your eyes are glowing into my beating heart

Oh it seems like it is fine as my hand is moving up your arm

And you never really know where it goes up until it starts

I've got my eye on you, what you gonna do

Day dream near a stream with the linear bites
Oh, I listen to the song on repeat from the other night
And I can't picture you but I sure got the feeling right
What a crazy world
Pretty little girl

And we wake from the night in a bed with a bruise
And we're laughing out loud over the craziest news
And you reached for my hand I was scared in your room
We fell on the floor and we started to move
And your hands were like birds as they flew from the coop
Up my back they would climb just as I came unglued

She said
If you break my heart then I'll change your mind
And I'll do it again
If you play the part then I will play mine
And I'll do it again
If we miss the mark if we hold on tight
We'll be there to try it again

Nineteen as we roll across the bedroom floor
Your eyes they cannot lie as you're dreaming of our future home
And the kids are growing up as you and I we are growing old
What a crazy world
Pretty little girl

In the rain with the drink from the back of the bar
I would raise up my voice, you would raise it up more
We'd forget that our lives being apart it is hard
We'd thought we were close but it still feels far
Can we learn to get by if we learn to have scars
If we learn to forgive and accept who we are

You said
If you break my heart then I'll change your mind
And I'll do it again
If you play the part then I will play mine
And I'll do it again
If we miss the mark if we hold on tight
We'll be here to do it again

Wait a minute hold up a second
Don't leave me here with this feeling
Like I'm the one full of regret
Like I never did good for us both
Like you never did pull out that weapon
And stick that knife in my back
Was I supposed to accept it
When your words are like
More than just sticks and stones
Kinda like a bullet
A hollow tip that lodged in my bones
And I can't just swallow it
My pride is more than all that I own
So I gotta give it away
And some of the times I'm all the way wrong
But can't you see past me and see my f*****d up home
That made me the meanest, the devil is just singing along
To the song I write til I'm alone at night
And I hang up the phone and bite my tongue
Cause I know that me and you is just only right but one

It's a cry from the past we have been through a lot
Every year has been great and a few have been tough
And your kids they will reach for the stars up above
We'll sit and relax as we cheer in the morrow
The ropes to the light from the crypt to the grave
We started alone in the end we're okay

You said
If you break my heart then I'll change your mind
And I'll do it again
If you play the part then I will play mine
And I'll do it again
If we miss the mark if we hold on tight
We'll be here to try it again

Art Of Flirt

Assalamualaikum/Selam Aleykum.

Heh. I saw many people especially guys who really like to flirt a girl, just because of her looks.

Well, typically, they will try to tackle by chatting them on FB, be friends with them, making jokes that are not funny and many more. Heh.

That's typical, in FB they will say like this....

If someone posts about his/her current situation/hobbies/interests, they will say "samalah!"

Another one? During online.

"Buat apa tu? Dah makan? Tinggal dekat mana?"

Yeah typical. Why do I know?

I found them when my FB's friends are still 1k.

Let me teach you the arts of flirting. Please take note that this is a very serious matter.

1. Prepare yourself to be a good person

Always improve your knowledge in everything, especially in 'agama'. Why? This will help you to know which is right and wrong, and this is important for every one of us. Of course, this will also help you to guide the one when it is the time to do so.

2. Improve yourself

Improve what? Everything, overcome your weaknesses. It's very crucial you know. Shift yourself from become bad to good. Yesterday, you wore short pants when you play futsal, today, improve yourself by wearing long tracksuit or tights. Aren't you improving? Yes!!

If today, you only read a page of Quran, the next day, you will end with a Juzuk of Quran. Isn't that improving? Yup.

Always improve yourself, no matter what. Also, improve your akhlak. People like the one with a very good akhlak.

3. Know your target

This is very crucial. Why? So that whenever you see someone attractive, you won't be crazy to flirt him/her. Loyalty is the best, never betray the love, especially The Almighty.

4. Don't be too obvious

This is my worst weakness. Whenever I fall in love with a girl, I would be too obvious until someone will tell the girl. Damn.

If you love someone, keep it to your heart, pray to Allah, follow the steps that I've mentioned.

5. Know his/her family

Why? For a guy, this is very crucial. Simple words for every guys.

'FLIRT' HER FATHER. What I mean flirt here is make her parents to have trust in you.

Why? You can only get married with her when her father agrees with you. Seriously.

6. Have a good financial

How can you flirt someone if you don't have good financial for your better life? Heh.

7. Tawakkal to Allah, do the best.

Yeah. This is the final step. After everything is planned, never forget to pray, we can plan. but Allah will decide. Don't worry, if you don't get the one that you want, you will get the one that you need. Insya Allah. Allah knows the best for us, if you are not married at the world, you will get a beautiful angel at Jannah. Insya Allah.

Move Along

People, if you can't bear the pain inside you, let it out.

Sometimes, even a strong person cry, because that person never feel the pain before.

However, Allah is always by our side.

He won't let us feel sad, as a good thing will come afterwards.

He never promise life will be easy, but He does promise that He will help us, as long as we obey to him.

When you cry about your pasts, it's okay.

But if you cry about your sins, that's the best.

Pray to Allah to be strong.

If you're hurt, don't worry.

The remedies will come afterwards, whether instantly, nearly or in the future.

Memories always make us stronger.

In the end, you will be fine, and just move along to face the pain.

Pain doesn't last longer, remedies heal forever.

Cinta..cinta..cinta... part 1

Apakah itu cinta?Banyak jawapannya. Terlampau banyak. Antara yang selalu kita dengar ialah...
1. Cinta itu gabungan antara dua jiwa
2. Cinta itu perasaan kasih antara dua jiwa (lebih kurang bukan)
3. Cinta itu merupakan perasaan kasih sayang lahir dari jiwa manusia.

Terlampau banyak sebenarnya. Berilah 3. Cukup syarat juga pun. Tapi sebenarnya..cinta yang selalu orang sebut2 ni kebanyakannya SPESIFIK. Maknanya untuk kekasih2@couple la. Sebenarnya kalau betul..Cinta merupakan sebuah perasaan kasih sayang yang menghubungkan tiap2 insan. Ini tepat. Jawapan lain tidak salah. Kurang tepatlah katakan. Cinta ialah universal. Lagipun..ianya anugerah agung Allah. Kenapa?Sebab kerana cinta kita akan menyayangi tiap insan di dunia ini. Cinta menghubungkan semua orang sebenarnya. Bukan Nokia Connecting People.

Saya menaip pasal cinta ni sebab saya menghadiri sebuah ceramah audio yang berkaitan pasal pengurusan cinta. Apa yang saya dapat, cinta merupakan anugerah Illahi. Tidak salah kita jatuh cinta kerana..itu lumrah manusia! Kita tidak mampu menahan naluri manusia yang ingin bercinta tapi bijakkah kita mengurusnya?Bukan senang nak urus perasaan cinta yang hebat ni. Sebab, kebanyakan orang sekarang bercinta atas dasar..luaran ja. Kebanyakan bukan semua ya. Yalah. Kalau kita terpikat gara2 ketampanan/kecantikan diri seseorang tu, ya rabbi, janganlah mengakui perasaan tersebut. Itu hanya suka2. Yalah. Kalau dah cinta atas dasar tu, lepas tu tiba2 muncul yang lebih tampan/cantik dari pasangan kita tu, uiseh, trus kasi break kan. ish3. Tidak bagus begitu. Cintailah seseorang kerana dalaman dirinya. Memang ini memakan masa yang lama. Kita tidak tahu lagi kan?Kajilah orang yang kita sayang tu tapi janganlah melampau. Tengok ja perangai dia dan macam2 lagilah. Kadang2 kita ber'ngam' dengan sesuatu yang pelik seperti, kita suka tengok cara dia membuat sesuatu, cara jalan ka..yang penting bukan pasal fizikal dia. :) Lagi satu, kalau kita jatuh cinta, saya nasihatkan, jangan pendam dan makan hati. Sakit yob. (pernah rasa c penaip ni) Kalau tidak mampu luahkan, berdoa kepada Allah. Mengadu pada Allah. Saya pernah menghadiri tazkirah pasal kesabaran..Assobarul minal iman. Sabar separuh daripada iman (seperti post terdahulu). Ustaz tu kata, kalau kita menghadapi apa2 musibah, kita solat sunat dua rakaat, then berdoa. Musibah maksudnya ini problem la ba kan. Tidak semestinya yang besar2 punya problem. Dia kata begitu. Mengadu pada Allah terlebih dahulu. Lepas tu barula cari seseorang yang dipercayai, yang berpengalaman yakni yang berilmu untuk luahkan masalah atau pun isi hati. InsyaAllah akan diberi petunjuk oleh-Nya. Sama juga kalau kita jatuh cinta tetapi tidak ingin meluahkan. Kita berdoalah kepada Allah. Semestinya Dia akan bantu kita. Kedua, kita cari orang(kaunselor/kawan/keluarga) untuk kongsi masalah kita. Ketiga, sibukkan diri dengan buat apa sahaja(konteks ini membawa maksud perkara yang TIDAK MEMBAWA KEBURUKAN@DOSA). InsyaAllah pasti boleh terurus juga tu.
Bagi yang ditolak cintanya, mesti sangat sedihkan?Kita sayang orang tersebut seikhlas hati bukan kerana faktor yang telah saya nyatakan tadi. Kita cinta dia dan kalau boleh kita ingin jaga dia. Tapi apabila kita menyatakan cinta kepadanya, dia tidak mampu untuk mencintai kita dan hanya boleh berkawan sahaja. Sedih kan?Kadang2 kita akan berfikir..."kalaulah aku tahu, aku tidak ingin berkenalan dan berkawan dengan dia." Astaghfirullah. Jangan. Sebenarnya inilah satu ujian perasaan untuk kita. Kalau kita berfikir begitu, kita seolah2 menentang takdir Allah. Jadi STOP IT! Prasangka baik kepada Allah. Why?Sebab. Allah pasti akan tunjukkan yang lebih baik untuk kita. :) Semua tu (kesakitan) akan menguatkan diri kita, tabahkan diri kita dan melatih untuk bersabar. Allah akan mengurniakan sesuatu yang lebih baik untuk kita. Percayalah. Jika bukan di dunia, insyaAllah di akhirat. :) Jadi bersabarlah. Assobarul Minal Iman. Saya ingin sertakan sini untuk kita hayati yang saya dapat dari masjid.
Sekiranya Allah mengabulkan doa kamu, sesungguhnya Dia menyayangi kamu.
Sekiranya Allah tidak memenuhi permintaan kamu,sesungguhnya Dia akan memberi kamu sesuatu yang lebih bagus.
Sekiranya Allah turunkan ujian kepada kamu, ingatlah sesungguhnya Dia menguji diri kamu untuk menyintai-Nya.
Berprasangka baiklah kepada Allah.
Ada lagi ba tu, tapi saya lupa kan. Manusia juga saya ni. he he.
Berbalik kepada cinta, erm. Ini boleh jadi satu renungan. Maybe kalau kita tidak dapat dia, dia bukan orang yang 'ngam' untuk kita. Jadi sabarlah. Ada hikmah disebalik semua ni. :)

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